What are the Abandonment Problems?

 

Like a silent killer, the aftermath of a childhood abandonment can last a lifetime if you do not do anything about it. The subconscious mind will continue to create the same scenarios where the source of abandonment took place in your childhood.

If your father left your mother for a third party and then abandoned you, then it is almost likely you will experience the same thing from your partner(s), who will choose someone else over you.  This can happen sometimes all your life.  The fears stemming from abandonment will stay put and are a strong force in creating one’s reality.

… UNLESS ONE CAN ERASE THE CHILDHOOD ABANDONMENT EXPERIENCE, ONE WILL LEAVE A LIFE FULL OF SADNESS AND DISAPPOINTMENTS.

 

Why haven’t abandoned problems been solved?

 

The reason why abandonment problems have not been solved is because there are so many negative emotions attached to it. Unless we sit down and analyze, we won’t see the pattern of abandonment in our own lives.

More often, abandonment scenarios happen in our childhood, and the subconscious minds need new programming to replace the old programming.

Usually, the aftermath of abandonment is pushed below the current subconscious mind level, and the time when it raises its ugly head when one reaches the mature adult age. Also, after repeated strings of failed marriages or love affairs often, one may wonder what triggers all these unwanted emotions.

When one wonders why one keeps running away from true love, feeling anxieties about one’s current love affairs, or self-sabotage either at work or home, hopefully, one begins to seek solutions. 

 

To fix our subconscious mind problems, we need aggressive solutions.

 

First, one needs to recall how the abandonment played out. Then, to eliminate that trigger for good, one needs to be able to experience it all over again.

There are many hidden triggers; the key to finding all of them is to examine your emotions when something happens to you.

Do you find someone else’s behavior irritating? If yes, the next question is to examine yourself to see why, honestly. Then, with each trigger, you will apply a solution that we will teach you to eliminate for good.

 

What type of emotions will you experience in your adult life if abandonment is left untreated?

 

• Fear of Abandonment: Worry that the loved one will leave or no longer care.
• Fear of Rejection: Concern that the loved one may choose someone else over you.
• Fear of Change: Anxiety about how life would be different without a loved one.
• Fear of Loneliness: Fear of being alone or coping without their support.
• Fear of Loss of Identity: Worry that your sense of self is tied to the relationship; losing it will alter who you are.
• Fear of Missing Out: Concern about missing future experiences or milestones together.
• Fear of Regret: Anxiety over things left unsaid or unresolved issues.
• Fear of Inadequacy: Worry that you are not enough or have failed to maintain the relationship.

Stemming from a fear of abandonment, you may experience unexplainable jealousy when it comes to interactions between you and your kids and between your kids and their chosen partners.

• Fear of Comparison: Anxiety about being compared unfavorably to others.
• Fear of Inadequacy: Feeling that you don’t measure up, leading to feelings of low self-worth.
• Fear of Loss of Control: Worry about being unable to control the situation or your partner’s feelings.
• Fear of Betrayal: Concern that your partner may be unfaithful or dishonest.
• Fear of Emotional Pain: Anticipation of the hurt that comes with betrayal or loss.
• Fear of Vulnerability: Anxiety about opening and showing your insecurities.
• Fear of Conflict: Worry that expressing jealousy will lead to arguments or relationship strain.
• Fear of Isolation: Concern that jealousy will push people away, leading to loneliness.

These fears are often hidden and disguised, as evidenced by broken relationships or the inability to hold a job or remain a resident. Some may experience social isolation and the feeling that nobody understands them. Opening up is something they may not want to do due to these fears.

 

One common characteristic that can distinguish an abandoned child from a child who has a stable family environment is attachment issues.

 

• Abandoned Child: They may struggle with forming secure attachments, often exhibiting anxiety or fear in relationships. They might be overly clingy or, conversely, have difficulty trusting others and may keep people at a distance.
• Normal children tend to form secure attachments, feeling safe and supported in their relationships, which fosters healthy emotional development.
• This difference can impact various aspects of their social interactions, emotional well-being, and overall development.

From attachment issues, we find that men who were abandoned are often fear of commitment, and women fear of losing the one they love.

From the fear of commitment, men tend to be cold, detached, and unloving, while from the fear of losing the one they love, women tend to be clingy, jealous, and attention-hogs.

Either way, the emotions both men and women experience are unsuitable for long-term, stable relationships.

If you don’t know how to uproot these fears, you will experience repeatedly failed personal or business relationships.

You will undoubtedly sabotage your success and live a minimal life. You will find that you are at the mercy of your emotions, and even though you are consciously aware of your actions, you can’t escape them.

 

What can we do about the abandonment triggers from our childhood that seem to wreck our lives?

 

Abandonment affects all of us long after the abandonment. Usually, it happens to us via endless triggers from the abuse incidents that we buried deeply in our subconscious. An act of abandonment from the people that we trusted continues to leave us with fears, and these fears reared their ugly heads when we became adults.

The first step toward healing this abandonment wound is to recall as many of the fears that we consciously face in the present time. Usually, fears of losing the one we love trigger our abandonment in the worst way possible. From a competent adult, we become clingy, overly jealous, helpless, and emotionally dependent.

We get lost in our thinking, often forgetting who we are, and are buried deeply in our fears. Just the thought of our person leaving us for someone else brings in an avalanche of worries, and instead of facing it head-on, we deny it, fight, and run away. If we don’t stop them here, they become triggered for the rest of our adult lives and compel us to act in a way that is unloving to others and ourselves.

The only way to confront ALL the triggers of abandonment is to recall which events in your life make you fearful when it comes to your relationship with others. It would be best to neutralize these fears and put them to rest before they rear their ugly heads in your life.

So, how do we revisit the abandonment experiences and erase them once and for all?

 

Introducing 90 Days Journey To Wellness

 

Our 90-day journey to wellness starts with a 90-plus-minute phone call.

Success or failure begins with this in-depth research of your childhood incidents where abandonment took place.

We must dig deep and unearth all events that seem challenging and painful.

This is the only way to face each event with adult eyes, hearts, and the desire to get to the root of each matter and see why we fear seeing them.

Through this conversation, we will build our key triggers, combat those first, and learn how to face others when they strike.

We cannot easily and readily see emotional triggers when they happen, but we will learn much about them via our 90-plus-minute initial conversation. We will be ready to face these triggers when they come and know how to react or act.

A trigger is an emotional response when someone or something is done to us that we have a psychological reaction instead of feeling neutral.

We must strive to be vigilant about our responses to the world around us. Anything can trigger when the subconscious matches it with our stored knowledge.

For example, when you were little and at one time when you raised your hand and wanted to ask a question, someone in the authority told you to shut off, sit down, and be silent.  This incident may have been an emotional charge where your subconcious mind store it and when you grow up and face similar situation you may feel fear or embarassed or shamed when someone suggests you raise your hand.  Triggers are ongoing through out life, and for our success in life, we must pay attention to how we feel and uproot all unpleasant triggers as we go.

 

What Are Your Dreams and Desires?

 

We will continue our dialogue to unearth your true dream and desire for what you want to become. We will create a video you can watch from these sessions daily to help you build a solid foundation for success using your subconscious mind.

For example, you may want to live in a 30-million-dollar high-rise condo on the beach in downtown Miami, have your other half with you, and be the CEO of your company.

We will investigate your desire and pull all the details into this video. The video length can be from 2 minutes to 5 minutes. These are the best video lengths to watch so we won’t get so bored.

 

I am learning how to eliminate emotional triggers for good!

 

Our method to eliminate emotional triggers is proprietary to our program, and we will impact them when you sign up with us.

We will teach you how to do them in the comfort of your own home. You must know how to do this, as we may not unearth all the triggers during our 90-day journey.

Whenever a trigger causes you a lot of discomfort, you must go back to this method and uproot it in your subconscious mind so it will not happen again.

 

Learning How to Use Self Hypnosis to Recreate/Create Sound Subconscious Believe

 

We will teach you how to perform self-hypnosis to create new subconscious beliefs to help you manifest true love, desire, and a life you can only dream of.

We will also show you how to create an audio MP3 of these commands you can listen to every night. We can do it for you using our voice, or you can learn how to do it yourself.

 

What Happens If You Do Nothing?

 

If you do nothing to eliminate these triggers from the events in your childhood, you will find that you are at the mercy of your subconscious mind.

You may experience one or more of those fears from abandonment, and you will be in the dark as to why you can’t hold a job or a meaningful relationship.

You may experience intense jealousy or sabotage behaviors that drive anybody or your relationship to the point of no return.

You would always doubt whether you can trust someone in your life. You will always question the loyalty of your family members, friends, or lovers. These are things that we found happen to people who have abandonment issues.

Age does not matter when it comes to abandonment issues. You can be 95 years old, still be jealous of your husband, and question his loyalty if he loves you. Triggers are not dependent on age. Triggers depend on circumstances and how they match up with your childhood environment.

 

What To Look Forward To!

 

You can look forward to an enriching and happy life. Undoubtedly, bad things can still happen, but you will know what to do.

With these tools, you can face life with some certainty that you are more significant than the abandonment issues you face.

You know what to do when life triggers you. You will learn how to create new beliefs that create your desired reality. Forewarn is Forearm.

With new tools, such as conducting self-hypnosis in the comfort of your own home, you can combat triggers and create a new reality, whether for business or pleasure. The sky is the limit here, as you can feel safe within your body and rely on your skills to navigate troubled waters.

Life is complicated, and we can’t always think that we can escape everything; however, knowledge is power, and at the very least, we can help you get from point A to point B, and from there, you can learn more and more about yourself.

Our proprietary method to erase lousy childhood subconscious beliefs is yours to have and to hold. You can eliminate any trigger that rears its ugly head daily. A 90-day journey is only a start to a new and beautiful life. You deserve to live and enjoy the fruit of your labor without interfering with the subconscious mind.

We can pick who we want to be friends with but can’t choose our family. Our parents, who are with us, maybe the source of all our childhood triggers. However, we now know how to navigate the deepest recess of our subconscious mind and rewrite our past to build a better future.

 

We invite you to click here and sign up for a 90-day Journey—the chosen path to our future.

 

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